AD | Does someone you know have a disability? Disabilities come in many different forms, some are obvious, others are invisible. Do you know how you can support a loved one with a disability? Because whether they have a vision or hearing-related, physical, neurological, learning and behaviour based, speech-related or even psychological disability, they might need help from time to time, depending on their level of independence and the severity of their condition.
6 Easy Ways You Can Support a Loved One with a Disability
Knowing how to do this is so important. That way you’ll be able to help build your loved one’s confidence and their independence, as well as building a stronger relationship between you. When supporting someone with a disability, you mustn’t cross a line or become intrusive. Even if you have the greatest of intentions, your loved one will know best. Here are a few ways that you can help them.
Ask if they’re getting their entitlements
Many disabled people are entitled to benefits and financial assistance. Including Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI) and Supplemental Security Income (SSI). These processes can take a long time and it may be a while before their case is concluded. So, you must encourage them to follow up on their case and chase anything that may be owed, such as a back dated SSI calculation. Having their finances in order will help them focus on other areas of their life that they can enjoy.
Let them take the lead
Not everyone with a disability requires help and assistance. So, take your lead from them. If they ask for help, then give them a hand or ask if there’s anything you could do to help them out. Taking out the rubbish, making a doctor’s appointment, or helping them with their shopping, for example. They may be fiercely independent, but might like a listening ear from time to time – so you can support them that way too.
Speak to them directly
There’s nothing more frustrating than being spoken about when you’re in the room, is there? If you have something to say, speak to the person directly, don’t assume that they won’t understand or acknowledge that you’re speaking about them. Even if they have cognitive and speech issues, include them in discussions. Make eye contact. Don’t interrupt, and avoid finishing sentences for them too.
Be mindful of their personal space
If your loved one is in a wheelchair, never start to push it without their permission or telling them first. Be mindful of stairlifts, canes, walkers and any other assistance aids they use. If they need help to be moved from being seated to standing, let them know what you’re doing first. Remember to keep them in the loop and make them feel they are being considered.
Create an inclusive environment
This is an important step to making sure your loved one feels safe, accepted and supported. It’s not just about providing physical support, but also emotional and psychological support. It’s about creating a space where everyone feels welcome and respected regardless of their differences.
Helpful strategies and resources
Taking care of a loved one can be an overwhelming and daunting task. It’s important to remember that you are not alone in this journey, and there are many strategies and resources available to support you. From finding helpful information about the condition they’re facing, to connecting with other caregivers, there are lots of ways you can support a loved one with a disability that will help make the process easier for both of you.
* This is a collaborative post – please see my Disclaimer.
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